They never knocked — that was the part that always cut deepest. My in-laws treated our house like an open extension of their own, walking in unannounced, rearranging the kitchen, even installing a “family” security system without asking. Aarav would whisper, “Be nice — they helped us buy this place,” and I’d swallow my frustration, because apparently thirty percent of the down payment meant thirty percent ownership.
The day I came home to find my mother-in-law reading my journal and father-in-law impersonating Aarav on the phone, something inside me shifted. I didn’t argue or shout; I just decided I was done. When I later learned they had access to our finances, I packed a bag and told Aarav, “I want to buy them out.” To his credit, he agreed — even when the confrontation with his parents exploded into anger and guilt.
We sold our car, took on extra work, and paid back every cent they’d invested. The day the final transfer cleared, Aarav changed the locks. When their old key didn’t turn, there were no words — only the sound of boundaries finally being honored. Months later, Priya wrote me a letter admitting that control had always been her version of care. It wasn’t an apology, but it was a start.
Now, the house is peaceful again — quiet, simple, truly ours. If you’ve ever had to reclaim your space, remember this: you’re allowed to change the locks.