Many children believe that being an adult is easy—until they face the reality behind the comfort they enjoy. One mother, Heidi Johnson, wanted to teach her 13-year-old son, Aaron, an important life lesson after he began acting disrespectfully and claimed he was “a free person” because he was making a little money from his YouTube channel.
Aaron refused to do his homework and didn’t want to follow his mother’s rules. In response, Heidi wrote him a “roommate-style” letter, explaining that if he wanted to live like an adult, he would need to take on adult responsibilities. She outlined that he would now have to pay for rent, electricity, internet, and even buy back items she had previously bought for him. He would also have to cook his own meals and clean up after himself.
She taped the note to his bedroom door. At first, Aaron reacted by crumpling it up and storming out of the house. While he cooled off, Heidi began removing privileges and items from his room, as part of the lesson.
After some time, Aaron returned, apologized, and asked how he could start earning back his privileges. Heidi said the goal wasn’t to actually charge him, but to help him understand the value of what he had and how much effort and money it takes to run a household.
The Facebook post she shared in 2015 gained widespread attention and recently went viral again. Many praised her creative and firm approach to parenting, saying it taught real-world values without being cruel. Some critics accused her of public shaming, but Heidi responded by saying she was simply preparing her son for adulthood.
She explained that teenagers are in a stage where they begin to seek independence but still need guidance. Her goal was to ensure Aaron understood that “nothing comes free” and that being responsible is part of growing up.